How Universities Can Make Students Feel Like Impostors
Are you wondering if you are smart enough or if you belong at your university? It may not be impostor syndrome. Your university may be impostorizing you.
Are you wondering if you are smart enough or if you belong at your university? It may not be impostor syndrome. Your university may be impostorizing you.
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One clever political trick is to convince people you accept an appealing principle and then act in direct violation of that principle. That way, you gain the rhetorical benefit of espousing a principle while gaining the practical benefit of breaking it. One of the holiest principles of American conservatives is the free market. It is…
Sitting atop a Spanish mesa one sweltering August night, watching the Perseid meteor showers streak the sky with the debris of a comet burning through the atmosphere against the backdrop of a billion dead stars whose signal light is only now reaching us, I found myself trembling with the parallel to life itself: The great…
An existential lesson gleaned from a brush with death and foolishness. “Compassion,” Karen Armstrong wrote in her stirring meditation on the true meaning of the Golden Rule, “asks us to look into our own hearts, discover what gives us pain, and then refuse, under any circumstance whatsoever, to inflict that pain on anybody else.” But…
“Contemplating the teeming life of the shore, we have an uneasy sense of the communication of some universal truth that lies just beyond our grasp… the ultimate mystery of Life itself.” This essay is adapted from Figuring. In June of 1952, the United States Fish & Wildlife Service received a letter of resignation from its…
Are arranged marriages loving? Many Westerners might express doubts. But a recent study shows that arranged marriages can be as loving as free-choice marriages.
Karl Marx and John Stuart Mill have both done a great deal to shape modern political philosophy. Their differences stand out fairly easily: Mill the analytical English-language utilitarian enthusiast of capitalist progress, Marx the “continental” dialectical advocate of communist revolution. Yet what stands out to me is what they have in common. Maybe their commonalities…
We mock a compulsive liar when they are exposed without understanding their vulnerability.